Are Your Doubts Holding You Back?
I was watching a video by Mary Morrissey in the new iLearningGlobal website today, and I’d like to share it with you.
It was all about directing power to create dispelling doubt.
When doubt creeps in, it can change the whole outcome of your entire life. Whether it’s doubt for something personal happening in your life… doubt for something you want to do with your business (or doubt that sees you not even getting off the starting block)… doubt for something in your relationships… and so on.
By entertaining the doubt, you are altering your decisions and outcomes; the entire vibration of your mind, which gives rise to ideas that make available the answers for you. This therefore can change the whole outcome of your entire life.
Can you recall a time when you initially listened closely and deeply to something that ‘felt right’ and, after making a decision to go forward with it, some doubt crept in that prevented you from taking action – from following through on your decision?
Maybe it was your own saboteur, maybe it was worry about “how” it would all come to fruition, maybe it was something negative you read in the newspaper, or maybe it was a lack of support or doubt by people close to you in your life.
The thing is, when you listen to that doubt and let that doubt rule your decisions (that you knew, instinctively, were right in the first place), you are altering the whole course of your life. You are holding yourself back from stepping out with passion and purpose to live your dreams!
Don’t be concerned about needing to know the answers immediately, or worrying about how it will all come together. When you are in harmony with your vibrations, the “how” will present itself to you.
“Stand guard at the portal of your own mind.” Emerson
Visit Mary Morrissey’s website for a free dream-building kit: http://marymorrissey.com
I Want To Go Into Business. What Can I Do? Get The Answers.
Almost on a daily basis I’m asked the question: I want to go into business, can you give me some ideas? What can I do?
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“He who deliberates at length before taking a single step will spend his whole life on one leg” Chinese Proverb.
I truly can’t answer that question for anybody.
What I can do, however, is highly recommend and promote network marketing / multi-level marketing, as it is a fabulous tool for anybody wanting to get into business and gives you a proven business model that works – quite simply, it is ‘micro-franchising’. Provided you don’t ‘vomit’ all over people with your opportunity; provided you treat the business as if you paid a million dollars for it (i.e. a real franchise business); and provided you learn business fundamentals (i.e. marketing, sales, networking, etc)… then you will be more successful in network marketing / multi-level marketing compared to going out on your own and winging it – even more-so if you have never encountered business before, or have yet to master the entrepreneurial mindset.
Even global leaders such as Robert Kiyosaki, Mark Victor Hansen, Robert Allen, Donald Trump, Brian Tracy and President Bill Clinton (amongst others) endorse network marketing.
Of course, there are thousands of network marketing / MLM companies out there… so the next question I frequently get asked is: Which one?
And you know what? I truly can’t answer that for you either. (Note: a good guide when undertaking your due diligence: http://www.mlmwatchdog.com/MLM_DUE_DILIGENCE.html)
Which company you decide to partner with will be determined by your own ideals, values and passions. If you haven’t gone through my values, wants and needs worksheets, this is a great place to start. Because if you’re not in a business that is aligned with your values; then it won’t sit true for you and, quite simply, you will not succeed in that company. It will not hold your interest long enough in order for you to build a long-term, profitable business.
Next step is to define what you are passionate about. And I mean, deeply passionate about… something which makes your stomach churn with excitement. Something you feel so passionate about that you can’t sleep at night because it has you jumping around all over the place with crazy excitement… something that really lights your fire!
And sometimes, this can be hard to define. In ‘Living An Abundant Life’ with co-authors Brian Tracy, Jack Canfield, Mark Victor Hansen, Dr Wayne Dyer and Neil Donald Walsch, I wrote about connecting with your inner child to find your abundances (or passions) in life:
“What ‘picture’ did you create when you were dreaming of who you were going to be when you grow up? Did that image come real in your adult life? If you created the picture, it must mean something to you. If you are not currently in the picture you created, there is no reason why you cannot re-invent or transform yourself into that picture you hold in your mind. When you are living in your picture, you are feeling abundant.” ~ Tara West in ‘Living An Abundant Life’.
If you can’t define a passion that really excites you, I invite you to have an exploration session… think back to when you were a child (or young adult). What really interested you? What subjects did you excel at? What did you dream of becoming one day?
You may discover you have several passions which you can utilise in the one company. For instance, as an example, I have a passion for personal development, a passion for transforming lives, and a passion for marketing; all of which I meld into my network marketing company which is in the personal development industry.
Once you’ve defined your values and passions, you can then set out to determine which network marketing / multi-level marketing company will fit your needs. Because when you find a niche, product or service that you are truly passionate about, and is aligned with your values, you will not only feel like you never ‘work’ a day of your life, but you will also be committed, focused and happy to share your opportunity with others in a genuine way.
“If thou follow thy star, thou canst not fail of a glorious haven” Dante Alighieri (1265-1321)
If you find that one of your passions is personal development and making a difference in the lives of others, then I extend an invitation to success and invite you to work direct with me in your own network marketing company.
I wish you a blessed and fruitful journey, full of everything that your heart desires. 
Are Your Goals Buried In The Garden?
Whilst we have good intentions at the beginning of a new year in setting goals, it’s a bit like planting something in your garden.
We love what we’ve planted and so we begin to water it and look after it. There’s a growth spurt so we water it some more. Then some distractions enter our life, and we forget to water it, suddenly the weeds encroach on what we’ve planted, and it dies. It’s a bit like goals.
Harvard Medical School conducted a study and the results were quite amazing. 70% of people who set goals don’t achieve them. However, 98% of people who call them Promises achieved their goal.
That’s a startling difference, don’t you agree? Would you prefer to be in the 98% or the 30% who achieve their goals?
America’s billionaire, Bill Bartmann (named as “One of the Top 100 Entrepreneurs of the Last 100 Years”), has a fantastic 10-step process for setting and keeping your Promises:
- Ensure it’s YOUR goal, your vision, your quest; not someone else’s. “Our life is the most precious asset we have” Bill Bartmann. Don’t give up your dreams to make someone else happy.
- Call your goals a ‘PROMISE’. Our brain is an amazing instrument. It is usually inherent within us to keep our promises… when we promise to do X by X date, our brain and our heart kicks in and we want to fulfil that promise. On the other hand, our brain can associate goals with failure. Think about that for a minute. How many times have you promised something either to yourself or someone else, and you fulfilled that promise? Then think about how many times you have set goals and the amount of times you achieved those goals. Promises will outweigh goals.
- Clearly identify your Promise. Don’t be vague. Instead of saying I would like to lose weight, be specific… how much weight would you like to lose and by when?
- Use the tools around you as motivators to keep you going. Positive motivators may be the people you love – negative motivators may be those who say you can’t do it; prove them wrong and use it as a driving influence.
- Create a Promise Plan. Promises aren’t promises until you’ve written them down. Define what your Promise is; when you will achieve your Promise; where you will be when it happens; why you want it; who you need help from to fulfil your Promise; and an ongoing list of how you will fulfil your Promise. It is not necessary to know ALL of the how… have faith that you will find the answers as your travel through the journey. Bill Bartmann provided a great story as it relates to the how:
You have set off on a 200 mile trip in the dark. Your headlights are on which shines a 200ft path for you, which you follow. You don’t need the headlights to shine up the whole 200 miles… you only need to know each 200ft to get there. Your ‘how’ is like the 200ft path. You don’t need to know the whole 200 miles.
- Review your plan and Promise on a regular basis: 20 MINUTES EVERY DAY. By doing so, the how will materialise and the pieces come together. You are melding your conscious and subconscious which will give you the answers you need. Create a Tangible Vision of your Promise and stick it in a prominent place where you can see it every day.
- Remove any negative thoughts from your mind and tell yourself you WILL succeed. Feed your mind with positive affirmations. You could do this by sticking them near your computer, on your mirror or wherever else you see fit. Another great method is recording your affirmations and then playing them as you drift off to sleep.
- Inform others of your Promise… don’t hide them in the cupboard! Commit to your Promise and share your vision.
- Envision the results. Play your own mind movie and picture yourself already there. Mark Victor Hansen and Robert Allen cite a great exercise in their book ‘Cash In A Flash’. Write an article (from a journalist’s perspective) that appears about YOU and your Promise… imagine a journalist writing about your accomplishments – it’s made front page news!
- START! Do something now, today, to begin your Promise Journey.
What tools and resources do you use to accomplish your Promises? Share with me your thoughts
What Is Your Symphony?
I was searching for a quote the other day and came across this little gem:
To live content with small means;
to seek elegance rather than luxury, and refinement rather than fashion;
to be worthy, not respectable,
and wealthy, not rich;
to study hard, think quietly, talk gently, act frankly;
to listen to stars and birds, to babes and sages, with open heart;
to bear all cheerfully, do all bravely, await occasions, hurry never.
In a word to let the spiritual, unbidden and unconscious, grow up through the common.
This is to be my symphony.
~ William Ellery Channing (1780-1842), American minister
These words, written so long ago, really touched me and sang to my heart.
And it got me thinking. Companies, sole traders, and entrepreneurs usually craft a mission or vision statement that expresses their direction and promise to their company, the environment, their staff, or the people they serve, and so on.
At some level, we all have a vision or mission; even if it isn’t clearly defined, written down or spoken about. It’s that feeling in your heart that you know is your Life Purpose.
When I read William Channing’s last line “This is to be my symphony” I thought “WOW!” What a great analogy to a Life Purpose or Vision, which really is a symphony full of crescendos, crashes, and booms that can typify the gentleness, excitement, passion, promise and conviction that, quite simply, is Us; our life journey, purpose, and vision.
What is your Symphony? Please share in the comments below.
Your Brain Believes What You Feed It
What you think and feel can change the whole outcome of your life. A pretty powerful statement, isn’t it? Particularly when you relate it to your business.
So let us think about that for a minute.
Your brain believes whatever you feed it. It knows no better. It wholeheartedly accepts what you think, what images you hold, and what movies you play out in your mind. It doesn’t matter whether they are good or bad – positive or negative. Your brain accepts what you give it, trusts your judgement, and then kicks into gear!
Here’s a good exercise to see what I mean.
On a clear night when there’s a full moon and you’re ready to crash in bed, I want you to go and stand at your back door. You’ll see the outside world bathed in light and I want you to momentarily close your eyes and imagine it’s nearing dawn.
REALLY HANG ON TO THAT THOUGHT AND FEEL IT!
Because it does, somewhat, look that way. So it’s really the start of a wonderful day! And when your eyes are shut, you may be thinking about what you might be doing that day… you know, perhaps going for a picnic, thinking about the clients or prospects you need to contact in the afternoon, picking up the kids from school at a different time – whatever it is that you might be doing the next day!
Open your eyes. Look again at the light outside… you can actually believe that you will see the sun coming up soon and hear the birds chirping. I bet your bottom dollar you will feel wide awake and invigorated… ready to start the day! Why? Because you put those IMAGES in your mind, those THOUGHTS, and your brain believed it. So it triggered off all the “normal” things you might feel in the morning.
Another one…
Can you remember those really horrible days you have – where nothing seems to be going right? Everyone seems grumpy – including you – and the whole world seems out to get you! You can IMMEDIATELY reverse those feelings. How? I want you to sit back in your chair, put a smile on your face and remember the last thing you laughed about. Was it the movie you watched last night? Something someone said that left an indelible imprint on your mind? LAUGH! And even if you feel stupid, keep on laughing. Thing is, it will turn into a real genuine laugh, simply because it seems so ridiculous (although your mind doesn’t know that!) :)
You will feel your heart lift and, more importantly, feel so wonderful and good that you have eradicated all those bad feelings you were having. I encourage you to do it now, even if you’re not feeling grumpy or bad! Start laughing… think in your mind, oh my goodness, this is just so funny, and keep on laughing. You’ll soon be belly laughing and feeling really wonderful 
That’s the power of the mind.
So what makes you feel really good?
I mean – the real deep down feeling of satisfaction, contentment, and peace. Think about it. Because it’s those things which you can draw upon in your mind to lift and propel you toward greater things. For instance, you may find great contentment and a feeling of peace by lying down in a paddock of daisies and staring at the clouds.
Whatever it is that motivates and works for you, think about it constantly. Let your brain feed itself on those thoughts and images.
Just as a top athlete plays a movie over and over in their mind of winning, you too can play your own movie of having the biggest and best business, grasping within your hands everything you ever wished and hoped for – but only if you believe in it, and only if you feed those thoughts and images to your brain.
For it knows no better. It trusts in your judgement. And when you feed your brain something for long enough it will ultimately believe it, but more importantly, YOU will start to believe it and LIVE it. And when that happens, whatever you think and believe in transcends into something real.
Remember: what you think, what you feel and what you dream, is who you are and what you will become.
Seize life! Everything that you desire is yours
“I always knew that someday I would once again feel the grass under my feet and walk in the sunshine a free man.” Nelson Mandela, Long Walk to Freedom.
Article by Tara West © 2009
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Turning Dreams Into Reality
Can you remember when, as a child, you would lie on the grass, stare up to the clouds and dream? What happened to your dreams from your youth? Did they slip away on the wind, forgotten?
Some of us today think dreams are silly, that they won’t come true. Then others say that they don’t have a dream at all. However, most of the wonderful events in our lives, both past and present, have resulted out of dreams.
“I have a dream!” Martin Luther King exclaimed. He went on to change a nation. Henry Ford dreamt that a motor car could be affordable for everyone. Thomas Edison dreamed of a light globe that could be operated by electricity. Before he succeeded he failed more than ten thousand times. The Wright brothers dreamt of a flying machine. The evidence is around us today.
The secret to their success was BELIEF and PERSEVERANCE.
Your dream may not be as big as that of Thomas Edison, the Wright brothers, or even a child’s. Nevertheless, what you have now is important to YOU and can be accomplished if you have the desire to do so.
D on’t be afraid to commit to your dream.
R ecord your dreams on paper.
E njoy the small successes along the way.
A motivating factor is picturing the dream in your mind.
M ake sure everyone knows your dream – you’ll want to succeed!
S ee things as a learning experience – never as a failure.
Never be misled by another’s perception of your dreams. When Marconi was discovering how to transmit sound through the airwaves, friends took him to a psychopathic hospital to be examined! He didn’t let this distract him. He believed in what he was doing.
What is your dream? Write it down and pin it where you can see it every day! If, the first time round, you don’t succeed, never think of it as a failure and stop. It is merely a stepping stone to success – a learning experience.
There is a French Proverb: “It is by believing in roses that one brings them to bloom.” Prove to yourself that your rose can bloom too.
Article by Tara West © 1994
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Your Authentic Power
What does it mean to be in your authentic power?
It can be fairly said that when someone is in their authentic power, they are coming from a place within themselves, which in turn creates a charismatic presence that others tune into. That is, the person’s language and actions epitomises who they are, as a person, and emanates a light that others recognise, believe in, and listen to.
Sometimes, when we think of power we think of someone who is wielding control and dominance. Look back in history and you more than likely can think of several people of influence – in their time – who lived up to this meaning; and it is usually these same people we don’t think fondly of!
But when we think of all the inspirational leaders, both past and present, who, in one way or another, influenced your life, then you are seeing someone in their authentic power.
Ghandi, Mother Theresa, The Dalai Llama, Nelson Mandela are just a few that come to my mind.
Who comes to your mind as a true leader? What traits do you recognise?
Leaders who are authentic in their power are genuine, speak from the heart, are factual, have strength in their words and posture, live by what they say, and seemingly without the need to do so exercise a calming influence and authority that is neither domineering nor condescending.
Do not be fearful of power. Authentic power is empowering, rather than disempowering, and does not seek to dominate over another human being. Your Authentic Power can change other people’s lives for the better, and YOUR life. The heart you touch today through your authentic power can be the catalyst and turning point for another.
There are many different kinds of power. True power comes from serving and helping others. Such behavior makes people respect you. They are willing to listen to your views and advice, and they support you. The energy of many people is thus channeled through one person. This kind of power is positive and authentic. Dalai Lama
How do you “get into” your Authentic Power?
We all have authentic power within us and you can tap into it whenever you desire.
Think back to a time when you felt extremely confident – in your own power. What did it feel like? What was happening when you felt that power?
William James (American philosopher) said:
“Seek out that particular mental attribute which makes you feel most deeply and vitally alive, along with which comes the inner voice which says, ‘This is the real me,’ and when you have found that attitude, follow it.”
Your Authentic Power is your values – who you are, what you stand for and believe in. When you follow what you believe in and what matters to you – what you are PASSIONATE about – you step out with conviction and purpose.
This is your Authentic Power that people subconsciously tune into and are drawn to.
Try this exercise and see how it works for you.
When you go out next to the store, the park or wherever you are going, before you head out, visualise and hold in your heart the person you are – no matter if you haven’t got there yet. If you want to be the next President of the United States, or a visionary missionary in a country most people haven’t heard of – whatever it is that is in YOUR heart.
Visualise it, hold it there in your inner space and LIVE it. Play a movie in your mind of YOU and what is happening in your life… the genuine influence that is surrounding you. Believe in your movie. Then go out and hold that person, YOU, and that movie in your heart and mind. I can guarantee that you will be amazed at the people that are attracted to you because you are emanating your own Authentic Power.
Article by Tara West © 2009
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