Who You Are Makes A Difference

Many years ago I was honoured to be presented with a blue ribbon that read “Who I Am Makes A Difference”.

Today, some 15 years later, that same blue ribbon has a pride of place on my office bookshelf, and, whenever I feel I am not making ENOUGH of a difference, or things aren’t moving quick enough where I don’t feel I’m able to help as many folks as I would like… all I have to do is glance over at that ribbon to know that even if I only make an impact on one life that day, who I am makes a difference.

A graphical ribbon that was sent to me via email, I never knew the story behind the ribbon. And then the other day, as I was watching a short video on Daily Success Stream, there it was! Funny how our lives can come full circle, huh? :)

So I was introduced to the beautiful soul of Helice ‘Sparky’ Bridges who spiralled off a whole movement and touched thousands upon thousands of lives.

I want you to know today that who you are DOES make a difference.  Please accept this blue ribbon from me. Please print, cut it out and stick it somewhere that you can see it everyday. And while you’re at it, why not print and cut out a few and pass on to people who have made a difference in YOUR life? :)

YOU are special! Thank you for being you.

Who I Am Makes A Difference Ribbon


Your friend, Tara

Being Real

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What would happen if you loved like a child?

The other day I received a touching email from my sister about “What love means to age 4-8 year old children”.

A group of professionals asked kids “What does love mean?” It really moved me to read some of the responses; things like:


‘When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn’t bend over and paint her toenails anymore.  So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That’s love.’  Rebecca – age 8

‘When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.  You just know that your name is safe in their mouth.’ Billy – age 4

‘Love is what makes you smile when you’re tired.’  Terri – age 4

‘Love is what’s in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen.’ Bobby – age 7

‘If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a friend who you hate.’ Nikka – age 6

‘Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well.’ Tommy – age 6

‘During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn’t scared anymore.’ Cindy – age 8

‘When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you.’  Karen – age 7

‘You really shouldn’t say ‘I love you’ unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot People forget.’ Jessica – age 8

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Wow, I truly marvelled at what these kids came out with.  What wisdom. What insight. What pure trust and belief in the world, themselves and what is around them!

They thought about what it meant, and then they expressed what they felt and saw from the heart.

This brings to me the thought.  What would happen if you loved like a child?

I invite you, right now, to go lie down in some grass (or somewhere else of your choosing), squelch your toes, stretch, close your eyes, and deeply inhale that question.

Truly envision that question enveloping your whole being. Then let your definition float away, open your arms wide to your sides, and allow the peace and wisdom you have discovered to wash over you.

What does your future life look like when you surrender to the love of life, as envisioned by your inner child?

Your Friend, Tara

Nanna’s Dance

Nanna: Lena Ivy Demko (Ellett)My earliest memory of Nanna is sitting on her lounge room floor eating dinner and being told to eat my brussel sprouts – which I hated!

When Nanna was diagnosed with kidney failure it uprooted the whole family as we lived almost 500kms away from our capital city, Adelaide. Nanna was given kidney transplants that were unsuccessful and she was put on a kidney dialysis machine, where she ultimately spent the next 12 years of her life. Read more